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I used to think that I needed to pick something and focus on it. To pick one skill, one love, one talent and put everything I have into it with hopes of becoming the best. I used to think that was success. Being the best.
Fast forward past years of torturing myself over the knowledge that one can never really be ‘the best.’ And realizing that even in the unlikely event that you are say, Lady Gaga, a gold medal Olympian or what have you…that moment of best-ness is at best fleeting. Man, no wonder I have depression.*
Lately, I’ve taken the “make small steps daily in all of your interests” approach to designing the life of my dreams. I call it the Get Out of the Night Club Plan. Every week I put real effort into each of 6 major projects. And I have papers posted in my living room to document my progress. Each week I do small things in each category, but real, productive and consistent things. And I’m happy to say that its paying off! Almost all of my projects are gaining in recognition and interest, some of them are even starting to pay a little. I’m having fun because pay or no pay, I’ve decided that this is my work. So I’m doing things I love for work. I have a good feeling about this.
Last night, as I surveyed my progress over dinner, I realized that my output was starting to look like an artistic empire. Something Kim Kardashian or Britney Spears would approve of. After all, I have the beginnings of a jewelry line, an upcycled art line, a fire trapeze invention, a performance career, multiple blogs, an internet presence, a fiction project, and a few other surprises in the works. “Damn girl,” I said to myself. Indeed, why should the celebrities have all the fun?
I’m reading the $100 Start-Up by Chris Guillebeau and so far its like having someone tell me, “yes, yes, you’re doing it right!” Kind of makes me wonder where I got that whole “you can only focus on one thing” limiting idea in the first place. I mean, I’ve always been a multitasker. In high school, I’m not even sure I knew what extracurricular activity I was supposed to be at and when. Same with Sarah Lawrence. These were also some of the happiest, most productive times in my life. Seems I get a bit bored and cranky when I try to be too focused. I need side projects to stay motivated across all platforms.
And the good news is that means that one or more of my projects is more likely to be a success. Because I’m putting out there what I think people might want and what I’m passionate about…but I can’t actually know what people will be passionate about, so might as well put out more than less, right? As long as I’m still putting out in each area, of course. And as long as someone can keep me organized. I personally have a lovely friend who works a couple of hours a week as my assistant to keep my crazy mind on track. And it’s totally worth it. I also pay someone else to do my laundry, which costs the same as 2 dinners out/month. Again, it’s totally worth it. Because then I get to do more fun stuff, like make this:
*Just kidding, I know I have depression because my brain chemistry is all fucocked. But I write this to clean up some of the messes my brain chemistry left all over my thoughts.
Oh, and here’s some cupfuls of kitten:
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